In P3 you're not only the new kid, but also the new group leader since you're fearless which lets you summon your persona without delay.
In P5 you're a criminal, actually P5 would be "real" for people that get falsely convicted because once a case goes to court, it lands on the 99.9%~ish convition rate in japan since you have to prove that you're not guilty, regardless of if you're innocent or not and since the japanese government can do no wrong, you end up with the criminal label on you "even" if you're found innocent 0.01%~ish of the cases, P5 makes it obvious by everyone calling you criminal, but in japan it would be whispers and people just avoiding you in general.
In P4 you're just an average kid being thrown like yesterday's garbage to your uncle's house yes, Moroka nailed it
which is surprisingly a thing not exclusive to japan, some characters do appear as bland, but, that's how some folks are, specially if they grew in a rural town, and a local deity giving the gift to anyone, so you're not just another chosen one.
If i had to throw a suggestion for a surreal game, it would be "A new game" from takamakuran, it starts with the most innovative premise, you're an adult, you have a job and the company you work on decided to fuck you for their own ends, so MC ends up doing what your average japanese salaryman does when he gets the axe, lies... then it turns into your average gamer isekai, but at some point you can access a very P4~ish area and is one of the few moments where the tone shifts entirely, sadly it seems more like it is a demo/proof of concept.